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RECENT ARTICLES

The following are a selection of Dave's dating and relationship articles:

• Memorable Kisses: From Sexy and Surprising to Downright Disappointing
• Managing Social A.D.D.
• My Date Went Up in Flames!
• Spooktacular Halloween Dates
• "She Lost Her Independence and I Lost Interest!"
• Is That a Monkey on My Date's Back?
• How I Got Over My Dating Moral Hangover
• Tired of Being a One-Man Woman? Learn Why Dating Around Can Be Good for You
• Get Creative! 10 Date Ideas that Will Add Sizzle to Your Love Life
• Let's Date! (But See Other People, Too)
• Dating on the Rebound
• The Art of the Reply
• Is It Possible to Love Someone You Met Just Once?
• How to Make Your Date More Attracted to You
• Smart Dating in Your 40's
• Breaking Up is Hard to Do
• Managing a Date Crisis
• The Boyfriend Transition
• Queer Eye Your Love Life Cosmo UK, November 2005
• Better Dating Through Networking OUT, November 2005
• How Not to Stalk Him After a Date
• Afraid to Date? Ten Ways to Get Out There Again.
• Dating in Your 20's Versus 40s: Two Decades and a World of Difference
• Single, Lesbian Mothers: Managing Dating Conflicts When Kids Are Involved
• Meeting The Gay In-Laws
• Breaking Up and Moving Out
• Are You Listening?
• PDA: How Much is Too Much?
• The Six Worst First Date Blunders (and How to Avoid Them)
• When Is It Time to Bring Up the Big "M Words?"
• Beware TMI (Too Much Information) Too Soon!
• Top Ten Romantic Movies For Gays and Lesbians
• The New Rules of Gay Dating
• OUT Magazine, March 2004
• OUT Magazine, June 2004
• OUT Magazine, September 2004

 

MSN/MATCH.COM COLUMNS

The following are a selection of "Dave Answers Your Questions" Column that Have Run on MSN.com and Match.com
2005-2009.

2007/2009

• "Facing 50 and Scared of Being Alone"
  
• "Dating Advice for Middle-Aged Gay Men"
  
• "Why Are Gay Guys Always More Attracted to Me When I'm Dating Someone Else?"
  
• "How To Handle A Crush on My Friend"
  
• "Shy-Guy Cinderfella Wants a Fairy-Tale Romance"
  
• "8 Simple Questions to Ask Before You Reunite with an Ex"
  
• "What Happens When You See A Future Together and She Doesn't?"
  
• "If it Ain't Broke, Don't Fix It: Enjoying the Gradual Dating Process"
  
• "5 Tips for Dating and Managing Friends-Yours and His"
  
• "Three Common Questions about Gay Dating"
  
• "Timing Was Off. Should I try Again?"
  

2005/2006

• 11/16/2006 "I Feel Like a Dating Scrooge!"
• 10/27/2006 "Beware the Green-Eyed Monster: When Jealousy Rears its Ugly Head"
• 10/13/2006 "I Need a Reality Check: Am I Expecting Too Much, Too Early On?"
• 9/22/2006 "Can A Conservative Shy Guy Find Love In A Fast-Paced Dating World?"
• 9/8/2006 "Dating a Man Whose Politics Are Different Than Mine"
• 8/25/2006 "The Dangers of Office Romance: Should One of Us Resign?"
• 8/11/2006 "Managing the Complications of Online Dating"
• 7/28/2006"Should I Date Her or Just Be Friends?"
• 7/12/2006"I'm Tired of My Boyfriend, But I Can't Seem to Let Him Go."
• 6/30/2006"Can This Foreign Fling Become a Real Thing?"
• 3/3/2006"Should I Date My Coworker?"
• 2/15/2006"Handling Dates Who Lie in Their Online Profiles"
• 12/21/2005"I want a boyfriend by Valentine's Day"
• 11/21/2005"Dating Again is My New Year's Resolution"
• 11/7/2005"I'm in a Holi-daze"
• 10/24/2005"I'm Burned Out on Dating"
• 10/10/2005"Should I Wait Around for a Romance to Begin?"
• 9/19/2005"First Date No-No's"
• 9/12/2005"Difficulty Coming Out in a Small Town"
• 8/29/2005"My New Boyfriend Disappeared Without a Trace"
• 8/29/2005 "Should I Contact My Ex?"
• 8/29/2005"Afraid and Alone HIV Positive Dater"
• 8/22/2005"My Boyfriend is Sharing TMI (Too Much Information) About His Past"
• 8/15/2005"Stuck in a Codependent Relationship with My Roommate"
• 8/8/2005"My Girlfriend and Best Friend Are Getting Too Close"
• 8/1/2005"My Partner is Abusing Crystal Meth and We Need Help"
• 7/25/2005"My Friend is So Competitive with Me!"
• 7/11/2005"Meeting Lots of People But Not Mr. Right"
• 6/27/2005"Passionless Dating After Four Years"
• 6/6/2005 "My Boyfriend Called a Halt to Moving in Together"
• 5/23/2005 "My Boyfriend Won't Introduce Me to His Family"
• 5/16/2005 "Over EX-posed! Too Many Exes in the Picture"
• 5/2/2005"Dating a Woman Who's Bisexual and Newly Divorced"
• 4/25/2005"Help! Straight Girl in the Middle"
• 4/18/2005 "Trapped in my Boyfriend's Closet"
• 3/28/2005 "I Think I Am About to Get Dumped"
• 3/21/2005 "Is Age Difference a Problem?"
• 3/14/2005"Spicing Up My Relationship"
• 3/7/2005 "The Downside of Instant Messaging"
• 2/28/2005 "I am 40, Gay and Like Being Single"
• 1/31/2005 "Single, Burned Out and Dreading Valentine's Day?"
• 1/24/2005 "After 21 Years, Is That All There Is?
• 1/17/2005 "She Broke Up with Me Via Email"
• 1/3/2005 "My son can't stand my new girlfriend. What should I do?"

   

POP CULTURE

Where You Were When:
Where were when the most memorable events of the last few decades occurred? Read my story and share yours

Read my review of "The Red Leather Diary" a story about old New York and finding a new life from an old journal.

Feeling burned out by celebrity culture, but can't pass it up? Me, too. Read excerpts from my blog Celebri-spiral: It's US vs. Them and E-POP!- the pop culture E-Zine.

 

LGBT Issues

Exclusive AARP Multimedia Report on the Stonewall Riots' 40th Anniversary. I wrote articles, conducted radio interviews, and was executive producer for a short film, "Stonewall: Milestone Remembered." Visit www.aarp.org

Gay and Lesbian Boomers and Beyond. AARP and SAGE respond.

Are you over 35, LGBT, and interested in sharing your thoughts about getting older, facing fears, fighting ageism, and thriving? I'd love to hear your story

Joe the Gay Guy on the Irony of Marriage Bans